Oct 22, 2012

Thoughts on Chastity

Over the past couple of months, I've begun to contemplate my position on chastity.  Don't worry, I still love it!  What has thrown me for a loop however, is my enjoyment I get out of holding keys.  As this blog has probably made quite clear: I am submissive by nature.  This includes chastity.  I enjoy giving up control to a worthy key holder.

While I consider myself completely submissive, I have been known to switch in the past.  This is largely due to a lack of true Doms in my past.  Without Doms, subs have to improvise.  The show must go on!  But even now, with a number of great guys in my life, many of whom are Doms, I find that I enjoy being on both sides of chastity, even if it means I'm the key holder.  In fact, I have two boys locked as I write this.  But why?  I've found that there's really no one answer to this question.

I believe that one reason can be related to my interest in bondage, but not in the way that chastity is a form of bondage.  Of course, I love to be bound.  But when I'm not in some kind of bondage, I still enjoy seeing someone else in such a situation.  That said, part of why I enjoy holding someone's keys is because I like seeing others enjoy chastity, and I'm happy to help them truly lose that control.

Another reason was given to me by my friend, Fossil9.  He suggested that the key represents something to the sub.  I hadn't thought of this, but I agree completely with the idea.  Just as a lock symbolizes something that is unobtainable, the key to a lock symbolizes control of whatever it is that may or may not be obtained.

Lastly, as much as I hate to say it, I suck at chastity.  I say this because I've found that I'm very good at pulling out of devices.  (And no, I'm not getting a PA).  I really dislike being able to get out of the devices I own.  Unfortunately, it would take a full belt to truly lock me up, which is far beyond my budget.  I also wonder about the possibility of living in a full belt in regards to hygiene, comfort, and safety.

All of that said, whether I'm locked or I have someone else locked, chastity is just a good, frustrating time.  While I'm on the subject, I'd like to give a shout out to the two boys I currently have locked, one of whom has done a very good job as he approaches the 6 month mark of his 14 month sentence.  He will soon be celebrating this by switching his device from the cb6000 to the shorter cb6000s.  Wish him luck!


Pup Striker said...

oh nice.....a 14 month sentence :-)....so is he locked up 7 days a week? any time to earn an orgasm?

boundand said...

He's locked 24/7. He will get an orgasm when his 14 months are complete.