Aug 3, 2012

Kink & Company: The True Joy

As I dive deeper into this world, I'm beginning to realize exactly how big a part of me my kink interests really are.  So much, in fact, that I consider it less of a set of my kink interests, and more of my ’kink life’.

There has undoubtedly been a change in who I am over the last year.  In those months, I've seen the five largest kink experiences of my life; all of which have been surprisingly revealing to me. With every trip I take, I not only learn more about the community and the lifestyle, but about myself as well.  Sure, I've learned a lot about my submissive side, as well as discovering new interests and kinks, but there's so much more than that.  My dive into the kink world has revealed to me a lot about who I am.

Even though my kinky life is kept separate from my "vanilla" social life, I've come to the realization that my kinky life is the stronger of the two.  With my kink interests being such a large part of me, I've found that my relationships with my kinky friends are stronger than those of many of my "vanilla" friends.  Having such a big part of me in common with my kinky friends, it makes sense that this is the case.  I'm also learning that the more I get to know these amazing guys, the more our common interests strengthen our relationships outside of the kink community.  These guys are so much more than just kinky friends that I play with... They're my true friends.  A kinky family, if you will.  I think back on my recent trips and see that they have been the best times of my life, not because of the kink, but because of the company.  And that, my readers, is why it's so hard to leave after my time with them.  It's the true joy behind the kink.

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