Jun 28, 2012

The Norm

So after years of growing up out of reach of the bondage I craved so much, I finally found something.  I was on cloud nine.  After visiting this first bondage friend a number of times, I began to feel more comfortable with the idea of meeting others for this risking form of fun.  Before I knew it, I was meeting a few other guys.  Then something unexpected happened that threw everything off.  I found a boyfriend.

And thus began the first true relationship of my life.  He was kinky.  But that’s it.  Even though we were both into bondage and had other assorted fetishes, nothing really ever happened.  We cuddled.  We had dinner.  We watched movies.  Obviously, it didn’t last very long.  I’m actually surprised it lasted the 5 or so months that it did.  While we were dating, I stopped my bondage meetings.  When it ended, it was back to the norm:

Eventually, I met my good friend, jazzboi, and after an all-nighter bondage meet, we became regular bondage buds.  For a couple years, a majority of my bondage time was spent with jazzboi.  At first we explored a lot of rope bondage and over the course of those years, we both learned a lot from each other.  Eventually, leather gear made it’s way into the fun and opened up new possibilities.  This was my first real step into leather gear.  I had been interested in it before, but with very little experience with it, it wasn’t much more than an interest.  After being able to really get a feel for it and see what it’s all about, my interest in it really began to grow.

At this point, I had reached a new norm.  Things were going good.  I couldn’t complain, but I always kept an eye open for what was next.  I tried to focus on my immediate area when searching for guys on recon and gearfetish, but my efforts didn’t yield many results.

Then everything changed.  And I mean CHANGED.  Out of the blue, I got a message from a kid in Daytona...

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