Feb 21, 2016

Creating Change 2016

About a year ago, I flew out to Denver for this conference in support of Sir. This year, we're out in Chicago instead. And the timing couldn't be better. This same weekend happens to be when DC is getting pounded by one of the worst blizzards it has seen in decades.

Last year, Sir and his crew spoke about kink and demonstrated a number of topics, such as temperature play, bondage, and Sir’s favorite: Impact play. I got to be his subject for that last one. More or less, this is what everyone did this year as well, but more organized. Oh, and I had to speak as well. For those of you who don't know me, I'm a bit of an introvert around strangers and I don't particularly care for public speaking, so getting up in front of a crowd of 200 people to talk about subspace and submission was a bit of a nerve wracking experience. It went great, though! People really seemed to enjoy the workshop and learn a lot from the collection of kinky speakers.

The rest of the conference was pretty low-key. Sir had to leave early, so I spent some time with a few kinky friends. Saturday evening I got to spend some time with a rubber friend. I got to experience a vac bag with attached gas mask hood, which felt incredible. One inside, the gas mask intake was connected to the inside of the bag so that my own breathing slowly removed the air from the bag. Each breath made the bag tighter and more restrictive. It was an amazing feeling. Breath control and vibrator edging then began. To this day, this is the only time an unaided vibrator has ever gotten me off.

Later that evening, I got to have a fun night in playing card games with several kinky friends that I don't get to see enough of. My flight was scheduled to leave the next day, but thanks to snowzilla that was hitting much of the east coast, DC was completely shut down. Fortunately, I was able to book a flight the next day, when a runway had reopened. But this meant I got to enjoy an extra day in Chicago! I have to say, this is the first time I've had a flight cancelled that really worked to my benefit!

The next day I rested for much of the morning before spending the evening and night with my rubbery friend again. This time, I was laced into a beautiful rubber sleep sack and edged like never before. The end result was quite spectacular.

It was an incredible weekend! I can't wait to do it again in Philly next year!

Jan 19, 2016

MAL 2016

Tonight is a bitter-sweet night. On one hand, I sit here reminiscing about the events of the past week. On the other hand, everything that has brought me that joy has left my side until next time. This Mid Atlantic Leather was incredible. While only my third, I can’t deny that it was my favorite.

Sir and I were lucky enough to have a friend of his visit us from the Tuesday before MAL to the Saturday of the event. This friend has a nearly insatiable appetite for bondage (not unlike myself), that I was more than happy to fulfill. That said, it was a pleasure to keep him bound for the several days before the event began.

The event itself went a little differently than past events. Unlike past events with multiple daily trips to the vendor market and hours socializing in the hotel lobby, this year was more low-key. Actually, perhaps ‘low-key’ is a poor choice. This year, things seemed to be focused on the more important things. I ended up spending most of my time with good friends in a private setting, rather than socializing in public.

On top of this I was fortunate enough to be bound on two occasions on Saturday, and once on Sunday, as well as getting to bind two cute boys. In fact, I might be able to say that I enjoyed more bondage at this event than I have any any other event I’ve been to. I finally got to get tied by a friend that I hadn’t seen since since my first IML: the event that started it all for me. He tied me up at that event, so being tied by him again was a bit of a nostalgia trip.

Pics of me tied are on the way, but until then, enjoy these pictures of tallguy92 tied up, strait-jacketed and in my sling!

Aug 21, 2015

And Another New Chapter

I'm sorry for the lack of posts recently. I'm trying to get more content back on here, but I've been a little occupied lately. I just moved to Washington DC to be with Sir! More to come on that soon, hopefully!

Jul 8, 2015

Under the Tape

As promised, I got my turn under the tight embrace of hundreds of yards of duct tape. I chose the colors myself prior to the wrap and quite like how it turned out. This was by far the most secure mummification that I have ever been in. There was absolutely no way I could get out on my own. I couldn't even wiggle enough to manage to roll over. It was a fantastic 4 hours!


Well, it's long over due, but better late than never. I recently attended my first Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend. I have to say, it was not what I expected.

I suppose I went into the weekend expecting a more quiet, toned down version of the larger, more prominent events like IML or MAL. For starters, I was pleased to discover that CLAW was not a title, like the other events I mentioned. I'm not saying that I disagree with holding pageants at these events, as I feel they are quite important, but I do have to disagree with them being the focus of these events. At least for me, these events have always been more about like minded people getting together, building friendships, sharing experiences, learning, and having a generally amazing time.

And that's exactly what I found CLAW to be. The weekend felt like it was less about looking good in your gear and being with friends, and more like it was about feeling good in your gear and being with friends.

There is not a doubt in my mind that I will be attending again.